Psychiatrist Explains: Psychology Behind Cheating & Choosing Wrong Partner |Dr. K |FO541 Raj Shamani

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Dr. K, Harvard-trained psychiatrist, explains why the person you're most attracted to is statistically most likely to hurt you.

He explains:
◼ Why he believes attraction itself is often a trauma signal, not a compatibility signal
◼ What is repetition compulsion and why we keep dating the same person who broke us
◼ How mother's touch starvation in childhood rewires adult men to crave but reject emotional intimacy
◼ Why red flags predict relationship outcomes more accurately than green flags, according to Dr. K
◼ How to stop falling for the wrong person every time
◼ Why he believes porn addiction and aggressive sex are symptoms of a discontent epidemic, not a cause
◼ What the Bridge Study reveals about how shared fear and arousal get mistaken for romantic attraction

Also covered: Dr. K, Alok Kanojia, Healthy Gamer GG, repetition compulsion, mother's touch starvation, Bridge Study, arousal misattribution, hypergamy, monkey branching, discontent epidemic

Chapters:
00:00 - Intro
03:25 - Why People Cheat
07:06 - What Is Mother's Touch Starvation?
11:11 - Why Men Struggle With Touch & Emotional Support
14:57 - Aggressive Sex, Porn Addiction & the Discontent Epidemic
24:18 - Do Women Actually Want Aggression?
26:13 - Repetition Compulsion: Why We Keep Dating the Same Type
32:34 - Why Dating Apps Can't Predict Real Relationships
37:01 - Why Teens Like Older Women & Older Men Like Younger Women
42:08 - The Dopamine Science of Falling in Love
45:17 - Shared Emotional Experiences & the Bridge Study
49:25 - Why Workplace Affairs Happen
52:38 - Why Red Flags Predict Better Relationships Than Green Flags
55:31 - Hypergamy, Status, Ego & Why We're Never Satisfied
1:04:24 - Why We Get Bored in Relationships (Monkey Branching)
1:08:33 - Why Women File 70% of Divorces
1:16:51 - Is Dating Harder for Men or Women Today?
1:20:28 - The Science of the "Ick"
1:24:47 - Do Rich Men Have an Unfair Dating Advantage?
1:33:54 - Red Pill, Black Pill & Green Pill
1:47:21 - Why Nothing Seems to Work
1:55:00 - Can You Make Someone Fall in Love With You?
1:58:14 - The Science of Charisma
2:03:18 - Feedback for Raj
2:06:35 - Outro

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